1. 放弃
敢于放弃已经获得的一切,不是功亏一篑,不是半途而废,而是为了谋求更大的发展空间。因为年轻就是最大的资本,人在三十五岁之前,才有这个胆量,才有这个资本。

2. 感情
三十五岁之前,最怕失去的不是工作,不是爱情,而是梦想。生命的节奏像一曲欢快的音乐,稍纵即逝。在三十五岁之前,有太多事情等着我们去做,如果过度沉溺在失恋的伤痛中,忽视了未来的风景,那么到了三十五岁,依然会一无所有。因为你在原本应该好好把握的时候,挥霍空了生命的原动力。

3. 年龄
女孩子一过二十五岁就开始隐瞒自己的年龄,其实大可不必。现在的年青期都延迟到四十五岁了,二十五岁又算得了什么呢?

4. 飘泊
飘泊不是一种不幸,而是一种资格。 二十一世纪的新新人类给【飘泊】注入了新的含义,从此【单身贵族】成为大部分年轻人的选择。没有家室拖累,没有沉重的责任,只有年轻的梦想和健康的身体,此时不飘泊更待何时?

5. 失业
尝到失业的滋味当然是一件不幸的事,但不一定是坏事。 祸福原本相依。当我们遭逢失业,试着唤醒潜藏的能力,也许在你三十五岁时, 反而会拥有更广阔的天地。

6. 时尚
不要盲从追赶时尚。时尚是一件制式的外衣,合不合身是最重要的。 若你想在三十五岁以后成为英明果断,独当一面的成功人士, 切记:要相信自己的判断力,并且坚持你认为正确的。

7. 格调
格调一词原本属于富豪阶层。 中国人有句话说:【家中三代富豪,才能略懂得吃与穿】。 但在这二十一世纪,格调仿佛也成为小资本家的专利品。小资本家说,有格调要满足四大要件:智慧,素养,自信 和金钱。

8. 评价
为别人的评价而改变自我, 是我们最不该做出的牺牲。 我们应该跟着自己的判断做每一件事,虽然这样会麻烦一点,但最后你会发现, 这是值得的。

9. 幼稚
三十五岁以后幼稚一下的男人, 人们会说他【保有赤子之心】,偶尔幼稚一下的女人,人们会说他【童心未泯】,但是在三十五岁以前,这些举动, 只会评为【幼稚】。不要怕人说我们幼稚,这正说明你还年轻,还充满活力。真正的幼稚是指在三十五岁以后依然不懂承担责任的人。

10. 不适应
人生以年龄段书分,每个年龄都必须承担不同的责任。 从踏入职场的那天到三十五岁之前,我们要承担的责任就是:适应这个社会的环境。鱼儿离开水会死,但是人离开童年的温室,却会逐渐变得坚强,逐渐适应环境。即使有不适应的时候,也不要灰心放弃。 总有一天,你会发现, 世界是为你而设的舞台,而你是天生的舞者。

11. 失败
任何人一生中都无法避免失败, 正如我们无法避免年华的渐逝。 失败可能是成功之母,也可能不是,完全是看你如何把握。如过在三十五岁之前,你还没能学会失败。等到三十岁,四十岁之后再经历失败,可能会受到致命的创伤。所以失败和成名一样,来得越早越好。

12. 错误
这是三十五岁前的专利,三十五岁后的禁区。

13. 浅薄
看 【铁达尼号】 会流泪, 看【齐天大圣东游记】会笑得直不起腰,也许被人笑成 【浅薄】。这样的浅薄又何妨呢?如果你在三十五岁前依然保留着这份浅薄,那么要恭喜你,因为你依然保留了敏锐的神经,保留了生活的激情。

14. 代价
不是不计代价,而是要明白做任何事都要付出代价。对我们这个年轻人来说,这绝不是一句废话。否则,要到三十岁的时候才会明白自己曾付出了多少代价,却不明白为什么付出,更不明白自己得了多少、得到什么。

15. 失意
三十五岁以前是一个尴尬的年龄段,想要的仿佛远在天边,收获的好像乏善可陈, 看看身边的人都有所成就,而自己的明天还不知道会怎么样。 失意对我们来说, 仿佛在所难免。 但是,失意像衰老一样,不该出现在现在年轻人身上。 我们今日所做的一切, 不就是为了明天不再失意吗?

16. 缺陷
也许你个子矮, 也许你长得不好看,也许你的哨音像唐老鸭。 但是不要把时间浪费在无谓的抱怨上,十根手指尚且有长有短,人怎么可能没有缺陷? 三十五岁以前, 学会发现我们内在的优势, 挖掘自己深沉的潜能, 也学着多爱自己一点。

17. 稳定
如果你不是含着金汤匙出生, 但是你在三十五岁之前就过着稳定的生活,那只有两种可能-不是你中了彩卷, 就是你未老先衰。

18. 压力
三十五岁以后承受压力, 依靠的是人的韧性; 三十五岁以前承受压力, 激发的是人的潜能。

19. 薪水
三十五岁之前,我们可以不在乎薪水的多寡,因为[机会]比金钱重要,[事业] 远比金钱重要,[将来] 比金钱重要。我们的首要目标绝不是赚钱,而是赢得未来。

20. 存款
钱是有生命的,它只有在流通的过程中才是钱, 否则只是一叠废纸。 三十五岁之前, 机会这么多, 条件这么好, 不妨大胆 【下注】 在自己身上。 你可以贷款创业, 用明天的钱投资今天的事业; 你也可以投资或充电, 创造自己明日的价值。

Source from a book 《35岁,决定一生成败》


看完后,有何感想?同意以上的说法吗?三十五岁之前的你, 有做好这二十件事? 不管你的今天如何~ 都要为明天的生活而加油哦! 千万不要放弃 ~ 就算失败了,日子还是要过啊!只要学会放下,学会知足。 再难的事都难不到我们了 :)

祝大家 : 生活愉快 !


March

7

姐妹

During CNY, I was not able to meet up with any friends. Because I didnt stay at Anson anymore. But I missed the gathering moment. Thus, I asked my hubby to stopped by Anson for a while before back to KL.

We gathered at Bey’s house. I arrived around 2 pm. We only have around 1 hour plus to meet up because I need to rush to KL to attend my cousin’s open house. Although just 1 hour but already meant alot for me :)

During our young time, we liked to take photos :) If I got free time, I may share with you OUR photos! Too bad this time Peng was not in Anson, else we can have a perfect JimuiS potrait :) If not mistaken, this is our lastest perfect JimuiS potrait which was taken during Peng’s wedding 2008 ~
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Okie, come back to our 2010 cny gathering, while waiting for Yun…Let’s start photo first. All pretty ladies’s photo!
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Chin and Yee
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Bey and Me
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Yee and me
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Yun and Me
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Chin and me
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Nowadays, our photo will have more members – got man and kids :)
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We just like to take photos and this girl always like to hide behind me. So that she can look thinner oh ^^ Luckily I am thin type. Let’s say I become fat in future. We must take turn ya!
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Two pretty ladies! 3 of us in Singapore now~
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Er… Both wearing Sister’s shirt? How come didnt inform us! JK lol ^^
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Yun and Bey. Bey will back to Suzhou, China soon. I hope I can visit her one day!
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Yee and Bey.
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That cute boy is Chin’s son~ Look like sister and brother right?
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2 fair ladies!
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Double Y – Yun n Yee!
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Do Re Mi Fa So ~ Start from left -> Me, Bey, Yee, Chin, Yun
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So Fa Mi Re Do ~
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Jin Hao has his own fun there.
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Who are them?
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They are our Hero!
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Why I say they are hero? Eg. Man are taking care of kids while woman are chatting :D
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Bey’s niece ! I believe in future Bey’s daughter also pretty and cute like her.
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Me and Jin Hao! Yea ~
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Before we left, Bey’s mom treat us home cook Nasi Lemak! Thank you so much Aunty for the nice treat!
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To aunty : “Your nasi lemak was great ~ I hope I can have more!”
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My hubby and I at first just planned to have dinner with friends at City Square’s Kim Gary. But we are informed that A big even was held at Johor City Square! This event called JB-Chingay. In mandarin called “柔佛古庙游神”. So, we decided to stay back to watch this show :)
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This JB-Chingay event will be held every first month of lunar new year.
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We were lucky to because we were able to join this event tonight.
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Before the event was started. There was an exihibition about this JB-Chingay event at the City Square main hall.
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So, I try to take some photos of the posters and share with you all in order to let you have more pictures about JB-Chingay event.
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Around 9pm, the road outside the City Square was crowded with people.
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Everyone is waiting for it..
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While waiting, we saw fireworks too.
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Around 1015pm, the JB-Chingay event was started!
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Too bad I didnt bring camera. Thus, I use my hubby’s Sony ericson to take photo. This is the best quality of photo I can provide ;)
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If I know today got this event, sure I bring my camera along.
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Er, what’s car is this?
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It was radio station 988′s car
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I guess so 988 DJs were also on the top of car
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They shouted :”Huat ah~ Huat ah~”.
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A lot people shouted “Huat ah~ Huat ah” too. I think “Huat ah~ Huat ah~” is tonight’s slogan!
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“One” Malaysia’s car also got!
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“One” Malaysia also “Huat-ah Huat-ah” ?
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Hehe ^^ is good to Huat because I am Malaysian too!
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Opps no! My HP suddenly out of battery :( Cant take photo anymore. Until 1130 pm, the event still havent ended yet. However, we cant stay anymore because we need to grab the bus back to Singapore before 12 am.

If you want to know more about 柔佛古庙游神, you can read the article below.

古廟遊神前奏‧“洗街”訓令妖魔迴避
(柔佛‧新山)柔佛古廟遊神管委會週四(3月4日)早上率領50餘名隊員,在新山市區依循遊神路線展開“洗街儀式”,全長10公里。

按照民俗,洗街是為了洗淨大地的穢氣,昭告神明即將出遊,訓令各方妖魔鬼怪需暫時迴避。

週四為農曆正月19日,是古廟遊神的前奏──“洗街儀式”舉行的日子。

參與遊神人數達20萬
在“洗街”之後,正月20日的“聖駕出鑾”,古廟所供奉的五尊神明將乘坐神轎,由善信們從直律街的柔佛古廟抬遊至設於義興路的行宮,並在行宮停駐。

到了正月21日的夜晚,五尊神明將巡遊新山市區,為地方上的人民帶來平安。每年的這一晚,來自各地的華裔善信必舉香或合十祈求神明保佑,並觀賞遊神隊伍中的精彩舞龍舞獅及其他民俗表演,人數達20萬人之多。

正月22日為“聖駕回鑾”的日子,五尊神明由善信抬返柔佛古廟。隨著柔佛古廟遊神盛會的結束,新山人的“新年”這才真正過完。
週四進行的洗街儀式從週四早上11時開始,直至下午1時結束,為時2小時。

柔佛古廟管委會50餘人週四早上從古廟浩浩蕩蕩出發,領隊的是柔佛古廟管委會主席林剛榮,其他同行的隊員尚有:管委會副主席陳道宜和葉沅明、管委區殖冠、古廟遊神活動總策劃陳聲洲等人。

隊員鳴鑼潑洒“聖水”
隊伍領著印有“新山中華公會指定第一大隊──柔佛古廟管委會”字樣的大旗,在前方“帶路”,後方跟著50餘名隊員以及手推車,手推車上載著聖水、鹽、米和茶葉等灑淨用品。

手推車上掛著一條長長的紅布和兩盞燈籠。紅布上寫著“柔佛古廟聖駕出遊”,至於兩盞燈籠則各別寫著“國泰民安”和“風調雨順”。

此外,置於手推車後方的四面“木牌”,兩面牌寫著“柔佛古廟元天上帝”,另兩面則分別寫著“肅靜”和“迴避”。

一路上,隊員們不停地鳴鑼,以及用石榴葉和柚葉沾上“聖水”,然後潑洒到街上。在這同時,隊員們也把已摻合的鹽、米及茶葉撒往地上。

在今日的洗街,隊伍們從古廟出發,途經直律街、義興路、敦阿都拉薩路、行宮、烏魯亞逸摩力路、耶耶亞哇路、亞逸摩力路、依布拉欣支路、依布拉欣路、黃亞福街,最後再回到直律街的古廟。

繞行神轎停駐處一圈
洗街路線與聖駕出遊的路線大致相同,唯一不同的是,前者的隊伍最後是回到古廟,而眾神夜遊時,五尊神明最後是回到行宮。

須特別一提的是,週四,當隊伍來到行宮時,也特地繞行神轎即將停駐的地方一圈,其用意是在神明尚未來此“居住”之前,先為神明“洗淨”此處。

林剛榮:聖水化有一神符
柔佛古廟管委會主席林剛榮受訪時表示,洗街隊伍所潑洒的聖水,裡面化了一張柔佛古廟的神符。

林剛榮說,公路上時常發生車禍,會有“不乾淨”的東西,隊伍們用柚子葉和石榴葉沾上聖水噴洒街道,是為了清除這些不淨之物,同時,也昭告神明即將出遊,訓令各方妖魔鬼怪須迴避。

他說,在洗街儀式中,隊員們也拋洒米、鹽和茶葉,以去除“不淨”。

搭奉祀台迎接神明

早年居住在義興三巷的百餘名村民每年都會在義興路籌資搭設“奉祀台”,這個村落後來被迫遷,村民們雖已不住那兒,但每年都會自發性地組織迎神會,在村落當年的路口,即義興路靠近綿裕亭外的大路旁搭建一個古廟迎神會的奉祀台。

週四上午,義興三巷迎神會組織也在奉祀台這兒準備了米粉、粥和飲料,以招待途經此處的“洗街”隊伍。

義興三巷迎神會主席許宗南透露,在過去30年裡,每次遊神盛會來臨之前,村民們都會組織迎神會,搭起臨時的奉祀台,以迎接神明的到來。他說,村民們風雨不改,為的是祈求平安。

“洗街”後必下雨
新山的柔佛古廟遊神盛會,“洗街”之後天必下雨。

這是新山老一輩市民的共同認知。

多少年來,古廟眾神夜遊盛會的前夕,“洗街”是掀開盛會的前奏儀式;其義意在於“灑淨”。

就是那麼巧合,每次洗街之後,老天總會撒下雨水。有時是頃盆大雨,有時是“意思,意思”落下數滴;總之是有那麼一點“巧合”。

週四上午,古廟管委成員進行了洗街儀式,週四下6時許,新山的市民迎來了老天爺降下的頃盆大雨。

這場大雨,掃除了連日來的酷熱,讓大家在眾神巡狩之前,有一顆清涼的心。

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March

6

How to make fishball

My mother-in-law taught me how to make fishball. I put the step here so that in future when I really have chance to make fishball I can refer back.

Main ingredients : Fish meat, salt, ajinomoto, cold water.

Step of making fishball
1. Chop the fish meat into small pieces. Add some salt and ajinomoto. How much to add lei? PS’s mom said “Agak Agak”. Mean just estimate it :D

2. Use the mixer to stir the fish meat until the fish meat stick together.
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3. Rub the fish meat by hand. The cold water was added spoon by spoon. Dont add too much or too little water. This is very important step to make sure the fish ball is crunchy ~
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4. I am not sure how to describe this step here. I only can show you the picture. So, you refer to the picture and try it ba :D See, ps’s mom use hand press – > A round fish ball was made. Cute right! Hehe ^^
I believe this is not easy lor.
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5. Use a spoon to take the fish ball so that it wont run out of shape.
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6. Put the fish ball into the cold water. I have forgotten what’s the reason already :P
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7. Take out the fish ball from the cold water.
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8. Arrange it into a plate. See, the fish ball’s size was just consistent. My mother-in-law skillful right?
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2 plates of fish ball can be made within an hour.
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8. To cook the fish ball very easy. Boiled the water. Put the fishball into the boiling water for 5 – 10 minutes.
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Fishball is ready to eat!
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The fishball taste good. When you bite it, you will feel the crunchy :D Dont know how to describe :P

* The step above just for your reference only * Please dont follow exactly, abo later your fish ball become fish stone, hehe… remember dont find me ya ^^


March

6

All about PS

Do you know who is this little shame shame boy?
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He is my super HERO – PS
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When PS was 1 year old.
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PS was so naughty when he was 3 years old.
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PS’s siblings – Start from left -> Brother, PS, 2nd younger sister, 3rd younger sister, Eldest Sister. Actually still got one more little sister – 小妹 which havent came to this world yet :D
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Handsome and pretty couple – PS’s parents! Compare with photo above, do you think they looked like mom or dad?
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PS’s naughty face
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PS graduated la ^^
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This is PS’s house! Front view
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Back View.
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Side View.
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PS’s house is unique.
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Especially this window. I like it :)
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So, I took a photo with this window. This is Me la – I am PS’s wife :D .
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The toilet is at outside!
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PS was playing card with his sibling at living hall.
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PS’s grandma
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On day 5 of Lunar New Year, my parent and big aunty came to visit PS’s grandma :)
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PS’s was serving drinks for his mother-in-law :D
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Bird talk’s session. They are chatting about 燕子.
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PS’s father – He is a fisherman.
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PS’s father was changing the net. He said when the season change, they will need to change net too. Because different season catch different kind of fish. Different kind of fish need different kind of net.
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It was not easy to be a fisherman.
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Do you want to be a fisherman?
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This is fisherman’s life
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Ps’s hometown – Tanjung Piandang
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Tanjung Piandang’s fish village
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角头(kak tao) 的鱼村
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This is where the fisherman’s stay. Left view
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Right view.
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A tricycle or motorbike was used as a transport to send the fish to “company”.
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Ps’s father’s boat which is used to fetch us around for sightseeing. You can read from this blog entry about our boat riding day.

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Back to PS’s house.
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PS’s favourite home cook steamboat.
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The steamboat was prepared during chinese new year. So that when any guest visit, the steamboat can be served immediately. I tried the steamboat, my sisters and brothers also tried. Everyone ‘Thumbs up’! Yummy and delicious~
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